1. Evaluate the 5 Closest People to you & compare them to their own Desired Traits. Do these traits match up? Are these people ACTUALLY who they say they want to be? Ensure the right community is in place to support you (family, friends, mentors, controlling inputs & what you listen to). Have conversations to hold these individuals accountable and, if necessary, think of limiting their influence on you.

2. Volunteer for things you believe in.

3. Next, evaluate yourself. You’re checking YOU are acting in-line with who you want to be. Extend yourself grace where lacking and move forward!

4. Believe YOU can “be the hero in the mirror.” It just takes a decision to be so …

Need to go deeper? Here’s what we use to manage our most important relationships. Click here.